However, just knowing in your mind that there are big differences between using a person in a photo as a tool and sex object (that person in the photo would have no feelings, no thoughts; is not a real person. Understanding how your body works helps you know exactly how to pleasure it. Its as good as thinking of a friend as an object. My anxiety made sleeping more than four hours a night impossible, and the sleeplessness compounded every worry and sadness. I think this is where counseling would be helpful, as you two can learn better communication and he can learn how to respond intimately with you in more appropriate ways. Yes, i said it.
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I only masturbate to people i know, not people on. I thought this would be a cakewalk; less of an actual time-consuming project and more like catching up with an old friend.